Women Empowerment: Driving Strength on Feminine Wheels
As I was stepping out of my house for the first day at work, the lines creasing my parents’ forehead were more than evident. They are well educated, open-minded individuals and yet something was nagging them. When I could no longer ignore their silent pleas, I quizzed them about it. It was their fear regarding my safety. Also, their recommendation was a government job; safety, job guarantee and all. According to them, as a woman I will never be strong enough to protect myself against the perils this not-so-beautiful world has to offer. The shock that overcame me was paralysing. Thankfully, I could get my point through them.
Unfortunately, for so many people, women still tantamount to delicate and feeble. And the gender stereotypes are so well rooted that it would take some serious effort to wipe out that sort of thinking. It would actually do good to nip this thought process in the bud and for that to happen, the adults need to revisit what they are imparting to the future generation. It is surprising that there is so much talk about women empowerment. Everyone can sense the pervading urgency of this movement to go out in full force and yet the society identifies women as ones seeking protection and accepting orders. They are more than that.
Even in the ages past, a woman’s strength has proved its mettle repeatedly. The religion of Hinduism bears testimony to the undying valor and grit of women,next only to the most powerful Gods. Devi Durga is widely recognised as an epitome of strength and agility. Her femininity was never an obstacle to the terror she unleashed upon Mahishasura. So why should femininity be an issue in the present time? Did not her femininity empower all?
In a recent session conducted by NutSpace, we tried to raise some questions surrounding Gender Stereotypes. Children of all age groups attended the session. This is an apparently progressive world we live in, yet some of us find it difficult to break free of the chains of regression. And gender stereotyping tops the list. It is, therefore, of paramount importance that we don’t let our child fall prey to this thought process. It is here that woman empowerment movement should find its roots. Only then can we expect a world free of inequality to blossom.
Surprisingly enough, when the children during the session were asked to pick a toy from a mix, some boys were forthcoming in their choice to pick a doll while the girls picked bikes and cars. And yet, there were some willing to play with all. A toy has no gender. It is meant to be played with. Why rob them off the freedom of choice at a such a young age?
Beauty standards in women have been rigid. Fair denotes beauty and dark stands for ugly. The cosmetics industry is probably flourishing on this one single thought. It is but natural kids take away that particular notion from the society and form their beauty standards around it. So we asked them to pick up the most beautiful out of the fair, wheatish and dark complexioned girl displayed on the screen. To this, there were mixed reactions.
In addition to the above, we also noted their reaction on a father caressing a baby, a muscular girl, a girl riding a bike. By now they were beginning to break the gender typecaste. An overwhelming sight to behold!
In order to finally drive home the point, there was a live storytelling session where our master storyteller, Rohini Vij, narrated the story of Devi Durga and her victory over evil. The live storytelling was the icing on the cake. I was fortunate enough to interact with some of the kids after the session and they were in a state of ecstasy. Not only did they enjoy the session, they took lifelong lessons on why they need to respect women.
Children are definitely the future but this is not for them alone. It is high time that we, the adults, should recognise the role a woman plays. No time like the present for some reassessment.
In this context, I would like to raise a few questions and we are all answerable to ourselves. All I ask of you is an open mind and some careful reflection.
- Each one of us is born with some innate talent. As we grow, we discover, we polish. Isn’t it unfortunate that some women out there never discover their talent because they have been chained by the society in the name of conventions?
- Is it not scary that your work was chalked out for you even before you were born?
- How about demeanour, your gait, your addresses, and everything in between?
- And now, I have no clue where the idea stemmed from that a woman is synonymous to weak, but should it grow any longer?
- And most importantly, a woman’s freedom of choice. Why should a lack of Y chromosome make any difference?
About Anam Fatima: Initially looking for a career in Finance, she soon gave up that for her love of the English Language and Literature and all things creative. She dreams of teaching the language someday. She also writes for her blog: The Penned Takeaways.